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Being in a relationship, has its own ups and downs. One of the big heartbreaking problem faced in a relationship is cheating which definitely happen between both parties. We will be focussed on why men cheat and in our next article we will discuss on how to prevent your man from cheating.


Before we go further answer this questions. we will deal a lot on them later. Now if you are a male and you are reading this i advance you to pay attention and learn because it also applies to you.

1. Why is he dating you?
2. Are you in a forced relationship?
3. Do you still pay much attention to him (sexually and emotionally)
4. Did you Change?
5. And finally are you full of surprises? or just the boring type

If you have answered the five questions above am sure by now you should have an idea on what is actually wrong though men generally are likely prone to cheat that doesn't mean you are the right party. It's a relationship and i don't think the other woman is more beautiful than you not facially though she might but a man would always love you if he sees you work hard just to impress him.

But most ladies still believe in pride. Well know this simple fact: He asked you out, He shops for you and takes good care of you. What do you then do? come on ladies remove that pride and save your relationship.

Still, there is no surefire way to keep him from ever having a moment of weakness. So, let's begin by looking at the reasons men cheat and then try to find some possible solutions.

On a Woman's Side

1. Same Thing, Same Way And Same Time

This is the main reason why men cheat. In shorts "boringness" . When a man have psychologically checked out of the relationship and find out that it's all same thing all the time, he gets bored. Now lets see how men think and act. At the baby age of men they are always curious and most times destructive (that means they love adventures), At their teen age all what they do is football, basket ball and Videos games and all these activities are all thrilling and exciting (they love excitement). At their university stage boys are known mainly for flirting. A new chick every day.

That shows that all through out a man's life is fun, excitement, adventures and lots and lots of interesting thing. Every man loves sex don't forget that. This is one big problem because when a man get into a real relationship you expect him to have all these thrills with you. Which seems to be very hard and boring.

2. Not Paying Attention

Recently everybody wants to work or don't just want to care. Well dear you should learn to care, Because when you don't pay attention there is another woman who will notice this and i tell she will make him cheat. I am a man and in general its hard for a man to say NO especially when he know you won't even notice whatever happens to him

As i stated earlier men love adventures so when you don't pay attention he becomes like a boy who just got a scholarship to school abroad. Attention and your time matters a lot. If he agrees on you not being around always then make him disagree.

Matter can only occupy an empty space not an already occupied space so another woman can only occupy that space you left empty

 Don't leave any space empty fill it all, He is yours and its your right to keep him to just yourself alone except you love sharing which i know no woman in her right manners would support - Woman's Voice.

3. Emotional Chaos

Men may also cheat when they find themselves suffering from emotional chaos, perhaps brought on by a bitter argument with his partner. Men often deal with turmoil through destructive means like drinking, drugs, violent behavior and forbidden sex. They will resort to anything to make the pain go away, and sex does a pretty good job of that.

A drunk man can even beat you till you bleed, A man who do drugs can even kill you with out noticing so you see among the above listed options for men its even better to have a cheating man. As it says prevention is better than cure, fights will always turn up in a relationship but that doesn't mean it should be a daily routine.Once its a normal daily issue for the relationship then the man is prone to cheat on you.

4. Opportunity

Earlier i spoke about not paying attention to your man but i didn't mention your man not always paying attention to you well this is the result when he is always out for work, meetings, traveling and so on. He get lot of opportunity to meet with co workers (single ladies) and probably pure strangers who might be either hot or sexy do your relationship is at risk

Put a little effort in watching him, how he acts around few co-workers and the type of women he keeps as friends but note do not be a watch dog because he will feel watched, that will lead to a fight which you should always avoid.

On the Man's Side

Now a man cheating is also as a result of his decision, pride and also sexual weakness. Lets expand on it

Peer Pressure (Friends)

Every man should have friends to make his life equation balance, but the type of friends you keep have a really good or bad effect in your life. You know your self if you are the type that keep the kind of friend always forcing you into bad things my dear you should quit. Because we men love playing games, making bets and so many other weird things. So don't let a stupid bet make you cheat on the love of your life

We men are also very jealous when it comes to women issues and sex life. When your friends talk about sex with other women all the time, Then as a man you will love to join  the conversation by also cheating in your wife. (be wise and don't let them fool you)

I know Its good to have friends and wise to perform experiments but when doing this don't forget you have a wife at home who also have friends and also loves experimenting. (don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you)

Sexual Weakness

Generally men love pictures and are weak when it comes to avoiding sex except they are culturally trained up and well mannered but most men are not like that even you reading might just be the weak type. This is one cause of cheating from the man's side. "A story on how a man impregnated his housemaid: Its true i read this online and just saw the simple logic" He loves pictures and can not avoid sex this is why we men should always watch our steps and don't let women take this as an advantage over you.

Self Decision

If you practice this then it means you don't love your partner. So you should love and learn to love properly before asking her out. Do not break her heart.

Now in general we have seen that cheating by men can either be his partner's fault or his own wrong. (Advice: Men instead of looking for other women outside your relationship just think about your woman and try to make her happy. Her smile is worth more than what you were about to do). Its about love, care, trust and values. Most men who experience their dad cheating and getting away with it are also prone to this so ladies always know his family background.

Two together is an unbeatable team so don't loose that bond for cheating. Your wife is way better and interesting than the outside woman

As a teenage girl lots of thoughts rides through your head everyday especially when their is a male persuading you to have sexual intercourse. Which happens in different ways, (Note: before a man will ask you out he must have studied everything about you and know how to charm you easily).

Most men will try several ways to get you in bed even to the extinct of deceiving you. I'm a boy and i know what men can do but as a girl you should never let a man take advantage of your innocence. Once he does then you can not escape the trap, Its more like hunt or get hunted game. And boys love playing it


Losing your virginity as a girl is one important thing in your life and i bet you, you will always remember the moment so why do you want to allow a young boy who probably doesn't understand the meaning of love ruin it for you. Studies has shown that most teenage girls ranging from the age of 14-18 are easily won over by men due to the sexual excitement in their head. So you see that's why you are always the target so be wise and careful.

What is Virginity

 Virginity means a state of purity or inexperience. In Traditional term, a virgin is a person that had not had sexual intercourse. Usually, the idea of virginity is used for women.

Losing Your Virginity

 Losing virginity which also is referred to as dis-flowing is actually a painful process but most men will say its a sweet process my dear its not. Virgin women usually have an unbroken hymen. A hymen is human tissue that blocks the opening of the vagina about two inches deep. Now you see why its painful.

Why you should not lose your Virginity as a Teenager

Above we made you understand what virginity is all about now lets talk on why you as a teen should not lose your virginity. Its going to be hard for you because most friends both male and female will laugh at you might even call you a man. But don't pay attention, they just want to deceive and use you.

1. Unwanted Pregnancy And Immorality

Though protections are now widely used everywhere for sex, still there is a possible outcome of pregnancy from your first time. It will be quite unfair to you if you use a condom on your first time. So why having protected sex when you known he just wants to sleep with you. And know also that fear will always be in you and you won't even enjoy the moment

Every now and then we hear of moral values and its appreciation well this is one quick way to reduce your moral values. No matter how the result turn out to be, either you are caught by mere humans or caught by your own conscience.

2. Unbearable Pain

I know most boys and some websites have laid some emphasis on pain during first time sex. Saying stuffs like it will only hurt ones and that's all. Well my dear pain during first time sex is not just about breaking your hymen it has some psychological effects on you which is worse than the 5 minutes pain.

Now lets take a knife and cut you or pierce you with a needle, Will it hurt? and after cutting will the pain last for just five minutes? Now that's the same as losing virginity if not even worse because the male organ is strong, big but not as sharp as a knife so you see it will cause real pain for you. And that's what men love. To hear her scream so don't fall a victim

3. Cultural and Traditional Belief

Many of us thinks that sex is all about two persons a guy and a girl, its physically true but if you really view the inspirational side it, sex is more than just two. In every region you belong to there is always a warning against sex before marriage, According to the biblical view it causes impurity (means its a sin), also in the Islamic part there is also a quote with its own punishment.

When a man inserts his male organ or other object(s) are inserted into the vagina, it usually tears or breaks the hymen which results in bleeding. This blood from the hymen is important in many cultures, as it is a sign that the woman is a virgin. And the entire process of losing your virginity is not healthy for you as it defiles you and render you impure according to cultures and traditions in our society today.

4. Social Status And STD

In the oldies, virginity was referred to as a woman's pride, her value and also her worth. Most men who lures young girls to sleep with them are aware of all these facts so why then do they still want to take your pride. A young girl said to me "my virginity is the only power i will have against my husband when i get married" which i have seen to be entirely true.

Its also the main cause of sexually transmitted disease which like HIV/AIDS. Which will destroy your life and ambitions though people now live with HIV/AIDS but dear prevention is better than cure

A boy who sleeps with you and take your virginity at a very tender age is most likely not to marry you. Now your pride is gone what do you now have to offer?Nothing!. So dear don't let a man fool you with his sweet tongue. Its our habit every man can sweet mouth.

5. Effects on Your Relationship

When you start dating a boy, at first he won't expect you to have sex with him, then the relationship will be sweet and fun but after some time he will start asking for sex from time to time. Lets see the psychology here, When he start asking he is not just asking for once he is asking for so many rounds, because after losing your virginity, what is left?.

He will expect you to do it with him always (losing more values each day), the sad part, this has happened to many relationships, the moment you start saying its a enough or disagree to have sex he starts becoming weird and this will either lead to him cheating on you always or a break up. So you see sex doesn't really strengthen your relationship.

A teenage girl deserves her respect from everybody. Don't lose that respect, if he loves you then he will understand your feelings and wait till when you get married that's the simple logic. Young girls be wise!!, To get more education on this topic take off your shyness or fear and go ask an elderly woman near you, could be your mother, teacher or female pastor because your virginity is a very important part of your life. Don't not mess with it dear. Its Your Pride

Source/References

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Belly fat is maligned for its way of tampering with any outfit that doesn't involve a muumuu (dress), but really there's something way worse about the belly fat: When white fat expands in your abdomen, nestling deep among your organs, it endanger you to some serious health trouble. We now know that this type of fat, called visceral fat, churns out stress hormones like cortisol and inflammatory substances called cytokines that affect the body's production of insulin. The result is worse than just being generally overweight; you're looking at increased risks of type 2 diabetes and heart disease.

Belly Fat

Reading through this article will definitely help you burn your fat give you that sexy, shaping, healthy and beautiful body that will make you feel free and loved by all. Here are few home remedies by Ayurveda to lose the fat deposits around your belly.

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What you Should do Always

• Start Your Day With Lemon Juice

This is one of the best therapies to remove belly fat. You can try this regularly and you will be surprised at what the result will be if consistent. Pinch some yellow juice into a glass of warm water and add some salt to
it. Continue drinking this every morning to boost your metabolism and to get rid of that belly fat.

• Drink Plenty of Water

Drinking sufficient amount of water every day is one of the best decisions you can take as someone who wants to get rid of belly fat. It has been revealed that drinking water, after regular intervals will help to boost your metabolism and remove toxins from your body.

•  Eat Raw Garlic

Chew two to three cloves of garlic every morning, and drink a glass of lemon water after that. This treatment will double up your weight loss process and make your blood circulation smooth in your body.

•   Load up on Fruits and Vegetables

Eat a bowl of fruits daily in the morning and evening. This will fill you up with many antioxidants, minerals and vitamins.

Belly Fat Burners

•   Spice up your Cooking

Use spices like cinnamon, ginger and black pepper in your cooking but be cautious to avoid too much spicing which might affect the taste of the meal. These spices are loaded with health benefits. They help to improve your insulin resistance and reduce levels of sugar in your blood

• Load Up on Protein and Vinegar

 Obese people who consumed a tablespoon or two of vinegar daily for eight weeks showed significant decreases in body fat, particularly visceral fat And also A diet high in protein may protect you against insulin resistance

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What You Should Avoid

•  Stay Off From White Rice

White rice is a major one when it comes to dealing with belly fat. Try replace consumption of white rice in your diet with other various wheat products. Include brown rice, brown bread, whole grains, oats and all in your diet.

•  Avoid Sugary Substances

Staying away from sweets, sweetened drinks and foods rich in oil will be of great benefits to you and your belly. These foods have the capacity to increase body fat around various areas of your body like abdomen and thighs.

•   Avoid Non-vegetarian Food 

  To eliminate belly fat, it is recommended that one should avoid non-vegetarian food as far as possible. This is really a wide range of food because many of us don't even eat vegetarian foods
  

No more Belly Fats

If you have carefully read this article then with more efforts from you the belly fat will burn away. Also every step written above is not a magic worker it will work for you but you have to be consistent and because it should take some time depending on your state.

Many of us also suffer from excessive loss of weight well don't worry in our next article we will talk extensively on how to gain your body and beauty back in just few steps so stay with us to get this article straight on your email just subscribe to our site.

Nigeria is a fascinating destination to visit, blessed with amazing cities, towns, tribes and culture. Most of these cities and towns are known across the country for their fascinating attractions, beautiful scenery, natural resources and cultural heritage.  Abuja, the capital city is one of the most loved cities in the country. There are other major cities in Nigeria which are very much loved and visited. Some are loved for their homeliness and hospitable demeanour, others are for their economic and business advantages; yet more are loved for their availability of fun, tourism and vacation spots. It was really hard to picked out the most beautiful cities because all its 36 States and FCT are just brilliant in beauty.

Though we are from Nigeria we still needed to do a lot of research on Nigeria and its cities before composing this article. Cities enlisted here are based on its fast development, beautiful sights, Culture, tourist attractions etc.

The City Of Abuja

This photo is the true reflection of almost the entire Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory of Nigeria. It is one of the most organized and well developed cities in Nigeria. It has many recreational centers, five star hotels, and world class shopping malls all over the city.

The City Of Lagos

Whether it draws visitors for business or pleasure, Lagos remains the most populous city in Nigeria, the second fastest-growing city in Africa and the seventh in the world. As the largest metropolitan area in Africa, Lagos has something to suit every traveler—from its tourist attractions, world-class entertainment and active nightlife to the fancy hotels—there are no limitations to what you can enjoy in Lagos. Many visitors venture into Lagos only to leave their hearts filled to the brim with memories of tasty restaurants, lively bars, active music scene, beaches, and colorful neighborhoods.

Uyo, Akwa Ibom

A glimpse of what we can do if we try. If you are looking for the most beautiful and the most secured city in Nigeria, look no further, Uyo in Akwa Ibom State is the place. Well structured road networks free of potholes, first class hotels (3-5 stars), beautiful sites. This city take the crown as the most beautiful city in Nigeria

 Calabar, Cross Rivers

Calabar is not only one of the most beautiful city in Nigeria, it is probably the most peaceful city in the country, complete with some of the finest landscapes and nature. A visit to the city will leave you in awe of the sheer development that has taken place there in recent time.

Enugu, Enugu State

Enugu, the capital of Enugu state is the second city in the South East that made it to this list for good reasons. It beautiful topography is among the best in the country and it’s one of the most peaceful city in Nigeria.
Most of the states in the East has refused to develop, living on in the past glory. The Governors from the Igboland are the greediest and most stupid of all the politicians in Nigeria, leaving entire region and entire tribe in the hands of underdevelopment. Shame to greedy politician who prefer to make billions in place of meaningful development.